Tuesday, March 4, 2014

The Sense of an Ending Final Post

            Although it was mentioned that the Sense of an Ending was an easy read, I did not expect the meaning of the book to be so philosophical. What I got from the book is that its meaning mostly concerns time and our perception of it. The stages of our lives also plays a big role in the book as the narrator often differentiates his overall attitude in youth , with life and all its possibilities ahead of him , and the cold, submissive attitude of adulthood. Some of the ideas the Barnes mentions actually unsettled me such as when he describes the way he lives his life as an adult. He mentions that you can lie to yourself and say that you are making mature decisions yet you are probably only making those choices because you’re a coward afraid of the consequences. Even this way of life is not without its pain as Tony ends up bitterly recalling a plethora of “what-ifs” from his youth and young manhood.

            The book also prompted me to think about things I never would have thought of such as the history of my own life. Right now I am young yet the more the years accumulate the more unclear my own past will be. I may perceive my own life in a way that completely ignores what actually happened. I may essentially lie to myself all the way to the grave and then what does it even matter? I fear that Tony Webster was right and life isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. The worst part of it all is that I could relate so clearly to Webster’s feelings of youth, as if life was certainly about to happen and I’ll go on to live fuller lives then my parents yet it is clear that Webster felt this way and in adulthood was left with Remorse and the bitterness of settling for what won’t hurt you. So in the end this book deals with our “own personal, largely undocumented” piece of history and how we alter and perceive it. I liked the way the author went about discussing this interesting topic and I found the overall plot of the book entertaining.

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